Wednesday, 13 June 2007

Beauty or the Beast!!!!!!

Don’t get me wrong here.. i’m all for a good looking man or lady, and i know that it’s looks that catches the eye. But a lot of us will say ‘It’s what is on the inside that counts’ and yes… of course it is, but how many of us really really take that on board? How many people reject someone as a potential partner just becasue of the way they look?

Isn’t it a bit contradictory to harp on about how it’s all about the personality and how much you have in common and then turn around and say’ but he/she isn’t really my type’.

I have a type, i know i do. Tall, dark haired, good built and a nice pair of eyes. But i’d like to think that i don’t immediately say ‘no thanks’ just becasue someone doesn’t look like an adonis.

For example, i know a lady….. very intelligent,ambitious,well read, interesting, kind and would probably be the most adoring girlfriend or a good wife you could imagine (if you’re reading and have worked out it’s you, then please take this as it is meant) and she has a terrible time with men. She finds it hard to approach them because she’s been knocked back before… becasue she doesn’t think that much of herself because of the way she looks.

Now where in the hell is the justice in that? With all these guys out there putting up with complete ar*%h*&es who don’t treat them half as well as they deserve, and there is this lady who should be treated like a Princess…. but she doesn’t get a look in, because like it or not, it is on some level all about looks.

That pisses me off that does. So i just had to say something.

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