Three Different kinds of married couples....

I just received this in the mail yesterday.
There are three different kind of married couples in this world.
First, whose marriages are arranged, I’ve never quite understood that, but I’m sure they know what they’re doing.
Then there are those who fall in love and marry their soul mates. These few, I believe, are the most fortunate people in the world.
And lastly, there are those couples that marry for their parents, for money or play it safe and marry a friend. These are the most unfortunate ones in the world…and they don’t even know it. Until one day, riding the fast train of life they run into their soul mate, and are faced with the hardest question of all.
What do you do when you meet the love of your life and you’re married to someone else? What do you do?
Hmm…. I have been thinking about this and I have not reached any conclusion. And also consider this ;
Its not like you are unhappy with your marriage or something, you have a nice loving husband/wife, but you are simply unable to whip up enough passion for him/her and you are disappointed that your love for him/her does not match your expectations of what it ought to be. What do you do then?...........lemme know if u get a good solution for that because am still in that confusion.....

Amma loved us very much....

“Who was my amma closest to from the 3 sisters? As in whom did she share her thoughts the most with?” All this coming from a daughter and a friend who was very close to her mom“Umm…well, no one. “
Well my mom was an extrovert; she didnt need blogging or secret diaries to vent out her feelings. She shared everything with my father. There were times when I used to get so frustrated that she couldnt or would not keep secrets, secrets which should remain safe between mothers and daughters.
I missed the connection, the sharing. There were times when I ignored her, and thought she doesn’t love me at all. I saw her crying during watching movies,serials and used to wonder how she could be so insensitive towards my feelings. I thought she never loved me, or any of us. I could never call her my best friend.
But time has made me realize that things are not always what they look like. She had to raise 3 daughters and a son which I agree was not an easy task.She had got lost in taking care of the family, in the daily routines, in the worries. Or maybe that was her way of expressing things was very different from what I would like it to be.
I can now feel the love now in the smallest of things she did.I know there is too much of her in me than I would ever liked to admit.
Something I have learnt…If she doesn’t love you the way you want her to, doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you at all. Better realise it now and not when she gone away from you...when i realised it...was too late....

Something Missing....

I came to get it buh it wasnt there,
it was scary buh still did dare.
I searched it in that place all over,
I dint even leave the cupboard and the drawer.
It was nearby that was my doubt,
so i searched the whole north & south,
I went all over the east & west,
to find it I tried my best.
I was upset left with sadness & sorrow,
everyone has it buh I cant even borrow.
Then I knew who took it away from me,
So i asked him for it bending on my knees,
he gave me what everyone needs the most.
LOVE now you know what i had lost.
There are ups & downs in everyone's life,
stay there and fight,you will survivie......

A lOng slEEP......

Someone at the door buh fear to open it...fear of loosin my asset my love buh i wont given even if all come and hit....
Suddenly an angel came and took me in her arms and i started to weep....
She told me I have been awake for years now i need to sleep...
I slowly closed my eyes and found heaven in her arms...
She smiled anad flowers blossomed and started to charm...
The devil within me woke up and i started sleeping...
I heard the last words and all found all crying and weeping...
All said "May Her Soul Rest In Peace"
I begged God,told him to give me few more days to live....
God was also a bit selfish asked me wah return will I give...
He gave me option either love or i can live...
Without love life was not worth...so i accepted love and the devil fulfilled his thirst...
Even after this one thing never changed in me...
Even today when i closed my eyes and only you I see ........

This is wah happens when a person is in love....not to everybody this gift is given...buh yes i had experienced it once.....when realised was very late and ma castle broke into pieces......

When you are together with that special someone, you pretend to ignore that person. But when that special someone is not around, you might look around to find them.
At that moment, you are in love.

Although there is someone else who always makes you laugh, your eyes and attention might go only to that special someone.
Then you are in love.

Although that special someone was supposed to have called you long back, to let you know of their safe arrival, your phone is quiet. You are desperately waiting for the call!
At that moment, you are in love.

If you are much more excited for one short e-mail from that special someone than other many long e-mails,you are in love.

When you find yourself as one who cannot erase all the emails or SMS messages in your phone because of one message from that special someone, you are in love.

When you get a couple of free movie tickets, you would not hesitate to think of that special someone.Then, you are in love.

You keep telling yourself, "that special someone is just a friend",but you realize that you can not avoid that person's special attraction. At that moment, you are in love.

While you are reading this blog, if someone appears in your mind,then u are in love with that person...;))

A dream is A wish your heart makes when you are fast asleep......

To be honest this aint my words,buh when i read through it felt somewhat like i used to feel......and wanted to begin here with my life most wonderful experience...so started with this....